Packing light is a relative concept.
We all have our own definitions for what packing light actually equates to in both size and weight. For me, it’s traveling in a handbag. For you, it might be not having to check a bag. For others, it might be a maximum of 10 pounds.
While our definitions can vary, the reasons that we can’t actually achieve those goals (at least easily) tend to float around – for the majority – a few basic concepts.
Here are the common reasons we can’t pack light – and some info that can help you solve those problems!
1 – Can’t give up stuff
Yes, I know it’s hard to leave behind those extra things that *could be* fun and perfect in the right situations. We love our things – that’s why we have them.
I’m not here to tell you to get rid of your stuff; I’m here to remind you that it’s OK to leave things at home when you travel. Bring the right things – and the right amounts – on your trips.
Here are some common reasons that go into this category:
➡️ I love shoes! I can’t travel with just 2 pairs!
Shoes are hard. I find that it may take a bit of compromise to have the perfect mix of shoes in a small number. I suggest having a read of this post for ideas: How to Choose Your Travel Shoes
2 – Insecurities
It can be a harsh reality, but sometimes our insecurities affect the way we pack our bags. Some common reasons that go into this category:
➡️ I don’t want to look the same in every travel photo!
This is such a common reason, but I have to ask… If you’re having an amazing time on your trip, then why are your clothes such a huge focal point?
This article might help: The Question That Can Change Your Packing Style
➡️ I don’t like my body and pack more to compensate.
If we’re not happy with the way we look and feel, it can be hard to be confident in our packing choices. Many women will overpack (clothes, makeup, etc.) to compensate. If you do like to have more, I recommend thinking creatively for ways to downsize in the process.
Try our Creative Ways to Minimize Your Toiletry & Beauty Kit course! (Tip: You can get this for FREE when you join our next Handbag Packing Masterclass!)
3 – Certain circumstances
They may be out of our control. However, there’s always a way to downsize for these situations so you can still pack lighter than you do today.
➡️ I’m plus-sized, and my clothes are bigger.
While plus-sized clothing may take up more space in your luggage, there are many ways you can take control of your packing and pack light.
First off, think critically and creatively about ways to minimize other parts of your packing list (like your toiletry and beauty kit!).
Secondly, by investing in the right clothing pieces, you can have a travel wardrobe with more utility and less bulk than the one you are currently packing. I recommend some merino wool and quick-dry clothing items, as well as the added convertible/multi-way piece or two.
Oh, and leggings! Here are some plus-size travel leggings options.
4 – Inexperience
➡️ I don’t know how to pack light!
Lack of knowledge can be a huge reason for not packing light! Luckily, Her Packing List is full of information to help guide you. Our community is also very helpful for addressing common issues and concerns. I highly suggest joining us there.
➡️ I don’t have the confidence for packing light!
If you worry and constantly ask yourself, “What if?…”, then these resources can help:
- Overcoming Fear, Worry, & What-If When Packing – Fear, worry, and what-if are the biggest reasons we tend to overpack our luggage for a trip. This 23-minute presentation will help you overcome these issues so you can finally pack light and be less anxious in the process.
- Handbag Packing Masterclass – Our next class starts in September and will guide you through the process I use to pack ultralight. Gain the confidence it takes to pack in a personal item for a one-week trip.
Of course, these are just some of the reasons you might be struggling with packing light. I’d love to invite you into our travel community, HPLWorld, so we can help you overcome these issues and achieve your packing light goals.