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We at Her Packing List are big fans of packing light to avoid unnecessary travel stress and fees that come from having too much luggage.
But would you bring only a large purse for a weekend trip?
I tested out this scenario on a short trip to Florida to save money and hassle. We can’t all travel for three weeks with a large purse like Brooke, but I’m here to tell you that ultralight is still possible for the rest of us!
In this post, we’re covering how to travel with only a personal item.
A Cheapskate’s Guide to Ultralight Travel
Being the cheapskate that I am, I usually try to pack as little as possible to avoid extra baggage fees.
I planned a girl’s weekend with my sister and friend at Universal Orlando Resort in Florida. We were excited to visit The Wizarding World of Harry Potter, but because of the high costs of visiting the parks, we wanted to keep the rest of the trip cheap.
We all flew different budget carriers from our respective destinations:
- One flew Allegiant from Tennessee.
- Another flew Frontier from North Carolina.
- While I flew Spirit from Georgia.
All were less than $150, but there was a trade-off…
We didn’t want to pay for carry-on bags each way, so we ended up traveling with only personal items, which are free on budget carriers.
Airlines can be strict about the sizes of personal items, so we picked our smallest bags and fit in as much as possible for a short trip.
- Take a look at these articles for more information: Baggage Fees: How Much Does Your Flight Really Cost? and How Much Money Can You Save Packing Personal Item Only?

Carry-on vs Personal Item
In case you were wondering the difference between a carry-on and personal item, it’s this:
A carry-on bag is generally the luggage that you put into an overhead bin. It can be a backpack up to around 40 liters, or a suitcase up to 22 inches. It does not fit under the seat in front of you.
A personal item is a bag that must fit under the seat in front of you. Airlines have different restrictions for personal items. For many, this bag can be a laptop bag or an oversized purse. On others, it can simply be any bag that fits under the seat. And on others, it can have a weight restriction tied to it.
It’s always important to check and double-check your airline’s carry-on and personal item restrictions.
- For more information on carry-on and personal items, take a look at this blog post: Research Airlines So You Can Pack Correctly for Your Trip
Picking a Personal Item Bag
I’ve seen many people argue with gate agents over their bags, especially when it comes to budget carriers. In fact, when I arrived in Orlando, a man was being taken away by the police because he refused to pay a fee for his bags that were too big. Don’t let this be you!
I carefully checked my airline’s measurements for a personal item and used a bag that I knew would work – my fantastic knockoff (or cheap real version?) Longchamp Le Pliage bag that I picked up in Malaysia‘s Chinatown.
Even when fairly full, it can be squished under my seat, so I didn’t think I would have any problems.
My sister carried a vintage flight attendant style bag she picked up at her local “op shop” that fit perfectly under her seat as well. You don’t have to buy something new!

How to Travel with Only a Personal Item – Packing List
Even in November when we traveled, the weather was warm but got colder at night. I knew I wanted to bring a few layers and comfortable shoes for walking around. I wouldn’t need items like toiletries or towels, so I left them behind and only brought my medicated lotions.
The hotel had everything we needed and anything else could be purchased there.
Here are just a few of the items I packed:
- Lanyards for our park passes
- Snacks, tea, and coffee to save money
- Camera and chargers
- Kindle
- A small day pack that fit into the personal item
- Water bottle (bonus if it’s collapsible!)
- 1 swimsuit
- 3 shirts
- 1 pair of jeans
- 1 pair of shorts
- Socks and underwear
- 2 sweaters (including one Harry Potter themed one)
- 1 pair of Converse sneakers
- 1 pair of Birkenstock Madrids
- Contacts and glasses
- A small amount of makeup and lotions
- A travel sized hair brush

Traveling Personal Item Only – Would I Do It Again?
Yes!
I didn’t buy much in the way of souvenirs, so I didn’t have to worry about my items not being able to fit back into my bag. It was a nice way to save money and keep myself from carrying unnecessary items.
Plus, I hardly had time to need much in the way of clothing as we were in Orlando for less than 72 hours!
I hope to challenge myself next time by being able to pack as light for an even longer trip.
What do you think, could you pack personal item only for a weekend away?
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This is great! Can you share how you folded the items, and also, what were the dimensions of the bag? And, what did you wear on the plane? I always try and wear layers and the “biggest” shoes on the plane to help with packing…
I used to roll clothes until I tried the layering method. Largest item first. That’s my beach wrap. Keep layering and top and tailing so it’s all flat. Then fold edges into middle and fold it all up. Seriously you fit so much in this way
I find that if you roll everything, (I mean the tightest roll you can for each item, you can fit in a lot – rolling is key.
Hope that helps 🙂
Do you sleep without clothes? I am always freezing and since I had a thyroid lroblem it’s gotten worse. I also bring a pillow. I’ve bought an inflatable with the right shape but it’s cool and it moves… It’s super small so it would be great if that would work.
I wondered no PJs, underwear, or socks, mentioned?!
What an insightful post! I tend to pack too much when I travel, but I’m looking to downsize. Thank you for sharing!