There has been a lot of talk in the media recently about the safety of female travel. One side is saying it’s not safe for women to be traveling on their own, especially in places like the Middle East. The other side says that women have just as much of a right to travel as men and shouldn’t be persuaded by the fear-mongering media. There seems to be a lot of female travel safety advice doled out to women, some that should be listened to and some to ignore.
Wear a fake wedding ring.
This is the most common advice given to solo female travelers and is controversial at best. The Canadian government even released the advice in an official brochure about women traveling alone. This advice is not always given by the women who are actually traveling. Will a wedding ring keep someone from harassing or attacking you while abroad? Probably not. The case of Sarai Sierra is tragic, but she was married and wore a ring to prove so. While in some cultures, seeing a wedding ring may keep men from harassing you, in others it could put you at risk for theft, even if it is fake.
On the other hand, some expert female travelers swear by the fake wedding ring tactic. Mariellen Ward of Breathe Dream Go tells people that her husband is Indian: “It changes the relationships with people I meet, and it makes me feel safer, part of the ‘Indian family.'”
Instead of wearing a fake wedding ring, you could learn a few key phrases (“Please leave me alone” or “I’m going to meet my friends.”) in the local language. I also recommend taking note of the local dress. If the culture is more conservative and you’re wearing short shorts and a tank top, you’re going to get unwanted attention whether you’re wearing a ring or not. And it never hurts to carry a whistle or personal security alarm that emits a loud noise if someone is getting a little too close for comfort.
Only stay in well-known hotel chains.
There are many people who prefer to stay in well-known American hotel chains while they are traveling overseas. I can definitely see the appeal in this, as the hotels are typically in safe areas and easy for a cab driver to find. But they aren’t immune to problems, as American hotels have been the targets of bombings in countries like Indonesia. This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t stay in hotels or that you shouldn’t travel, but rather that you should be aware of your surroundings.
Instead of only staying in well-known hotels, try staying in local guesthouses or bed and breakfasts. You will be able to experience more of your destination’s culture as well as spending less money.
You should only travel in groups or on tours.
My friends and family always ask whom I’m traveling with and are put at ease when I tell them I’m going with a tour. I don’t believe that you always need to go with a tour group to stay safe, but sometimes leaving the details to the professionals can wind up in your favor. For example, I traveled with a tour group in Croatia and am planning a tour in Turkey because I will feel more comfortable not having to worry as much about language barriers and meeting people. But this is not a hard-and-fast rule. There are plenty of places that you can travel safely on your own.
If you don’t want to travel with a tour but want to still meet people, I recommend staying in hostels or meeting up with locals through groups like Meetup.com or CouchSurfing.
Lie about having a boyfriend, husband or group of friends waiting for you.
This one isn’t necessarily bad advice. While I don’t condone lying for the sake of lying, there’s something to be said for exaggerating your circumstances. If someone’s bothering you, it doesn’t hurt to say, “I’m waiting for my husband” or “I’m late to meet my friends.” And if someone asks if you’re traveling alone, I don’t recommend saying yes. Don’t tell strangers where you’re staying. It’s also a good idea to register with your country’s embassy before you go so that if you get into trouble, someone will be able to help you.
>> See the post on the benefits of white lies when you travel.
Stay only in tourist areas.
You can get robbed anywhere. The most well-known scams and robberies are in well-tread areas like Rome’s Spanish Steps (rose scam, anyone?), Barcelona’s La Rambla and Porto’s waterfront, as Kristen told us. In my opinion, staying only in touristy areas makes you more susceptible to theft or assault. Don’t let fear prevent you from getting outside of the central area.
If you’re interested in seeing more of the city, but don’t want to wander on your own, look into day walking tours led by locals. Having a resident wander with you is much safer and just as fun!
Follow the #WeGoSolo hashtag on Twitter for more great solo female travel advice.
- An Expert’s Safety Tips for Female Travellers, Journeywoman– Solo travel veteran Evelyn Hannon offers excellent and simple advice for keeping safe while traveling.
- The Art of Solo Travel by Stephanie Lee– This Indie Travel guidebook tells you everything you need to know about traveling alone for the first time.
Have you ever worn a fake wedding ring while traveling? Would you follow any of this advice? Do you have your own tips to recommend? Sound off below in the comments!
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